Belle Knox Duke student |
I've written often about the word
moral. I've talked about how
it is too often used to support an argument. The definition of moral
changes along with ideology and regional location. If you ask a
leftist to to give an example they will likely tell you that that it
is immoral for someone to be obese. If you ask a conservative about
sex outside of marriage they will tell you it is immoral, even if
that marriage was sanctified by a government representative versus a
minister.
Morality
has always been a social institution. In the USA, what is considered
immoral in the south is often more accepted in the north – or
west. In America's past it wasn't immoral to marry a 12 year old
girl, while in today’s society that is absolutely unacceptable. In
those times life was about surviving. Male children were thought to
be more capable at cutting firewood and plowing fields, while too
often the female child was seen as simply another mouth to feed.
Female
children were married off at or near puberty. Sometimes much older
males would pay a diary for the right to marry that child. Arranged
marriages are still happening around the world. Some of it might be
for the same reasons as in our past, while in many cases it happens
simply because it is now a tradition – just the way things are
done.
Social
standards evolve for a variety of reasons. In the modern American
society arranged marriages are seen as barbaric. In today’s world sex outside of marriage is much more common. In the not so
distant past sex for women outside of marriage was forbidden while
for men it was simply frowned upon. This is likely because it is the
female that often bore the consequences for these liaisons. Out of
wed births often stigmatized the woman and was too often a financial
burden that was impossible to overcome. These pregnancies were also a
barrier to future relationships. In short, the price for sex outside
of marriage was too high. Because of science out of wedlock births
are less likely to occur. While the financial burden for out of
wedlock births are still a problem, it doesn't carry the social
stigma of the past.